Rejection Is Never Easy
Rejection is never easy; but when you understand that you can get what you need somewhere else, the experience of being rejected looses it’s power. People who reject you do so because they believe that you are not good enough to be apart of their world. And when you think about all the people who have ever rejected you, the one thing they all have in common is the belief that they had something you wanted; and while this might in fact be the case, you must always remember that they are not the only ones who have it. There are 300 million people in the United States of America and billions of people in the world and when one person rejects you it is important to remember that somewhere on this planet there is someone who would love to have the chance to give you what they won’t.
Let them reject you because as long as life is saying yes...it doesn’t matter who says no. When you don’t need to be in—the fact that someone locked you out really doesn’t bother you as much. It is when we learn how to walk alone that we become author of our own horoscopes. Stop worrying about them and write your own future.
| The real problem of rejection is not the fact that people say no, but rather the inconvenient truth that too often we build our lives on the hope of them saying yes. We needed them to say yes. And whenever you have too much invested in yes—a simple no has the power destroy you. I have seen people beg their into other people’s lives. I have watched others try to buy their way into relationships—but in the end you can’t make people love you. And why would you want to? If you have to beg your way into a relation-ship, it's prob-ably a good indication that you were never supposed to be there in the first place. You don’t have to beg anybody for anything because you can get what you need somewhere else. So let them say no. Let them walk away. |
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